You pretty much said what I was going to. And I hate to say this but if you have a television for customers to watch, then you leave them alone and let them watch the TV! After the first time I'd never go bask except to pay and I would never go back! Plus I was mildly bullied in elementary school. One girl vanished after she hit me in the stomach, it was PE, but everyone that saw it stood up for me and said that it was uncalled for, she went to the office and never came back, neither did her side kick. But I met the side kick years later and she apologized and was friendly and kind and all because she watched an anime it changed her life. I'll give it that bullies can change for the better.
But to completely forget that you made someone's life a living hell is not something I would be able to forgive no matter if I fell for him before I knew who he was. That pain would still be there and I'd be even more pissed and hurt that he couldn't remember. But of course the big one, DON"T FREAKING SLEEP WITH HIM! What does that do? NOTHING! It works against you because the seme is an IDIOT!
Two stories were both shit. First, you don't take money out of a joint account and not tell the other party, you are asking to be stabbed right there. Second, you don't bully a person and make the past life hell then the person turns around and falls in love with the bully, I am too vengeful for that bullshit.