You have to stretch enough and use lube.
But take it slow, start with buttplugs and little toys like that and then use larger ones step by step.
When you're very turned on it also easier to relax the muscle.
I think it always hurt in the beginning. Some yaoi makes it looks like it's feel good from the first time but reality is not like that. I saw in Gay porn that the uke turn all soft when he got penetrate, it's must be really painful that it makes him turn off like that.
Uhhh well, i think you're missing the most important reason: the prostate gland. Only men have a prostate gland situated in an area easily stimulated by anal sex. Essentially, the pleasure derived from gay anal sec is completely different from the pleasure derived from other forms of anal sex (I was gonna say heterosexual sex but idk how you identify so i played it safe ¯_(ツ)_/¯)
Not sure about that... In ma case it hurts but also feels good... Maybe cuz im an M? ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
I don't understand at all, yesterday I had anal sex but it didn't felt good at all, it hurt like hel.l am so confused I feel like yaoi betrayed my fujoshi imagination