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To all of you out there who have experienced more things in life than me, is kissing honestly nice? When i read it (like in a book) or see it drawn in manga it looks quite nice and enjoyable, but when i try to imagine kissing someone it's just a mouth against a mouth with a bit of licking, nothing i would enjoy. A kiss feels like a weird awkward angle with noses and teeth getting in the way, and i get more repulsive than turned on imagining a tounge in my mouth. And even wothout tpunge, i can't really understand the appeal in just pressing lips against each other?? I think this have something to do with what i asked about in a previous question (about how i can't imagine getting turned on by a body and if i'm asexual/demi etc. Feel free to answer that question too, if you wanna), and it further pushes my suspicion about me being ace or demi. I get that a first kiss can be pretty bad and awkward, since you're inexperienced etc. But even with a good kisser i can't imagine it as anything other than wet, slippery and messy. To mee, kissing feels like something i wouldn't neccesarily enjoy or dislike, just something i would do because i like a person and would do it for them. Is kissing nice to you guys? Does anyone feel the same as I? Is this repulsivness something normal, that's gonna disappear after i actually experienve a kiss? I welcome all answers and theories, give it to me ( • ω• )✧
It's because imagination and fiction is better than real life. I'm 21 and I had 3 boyfriends and I never enjoyed kissing even tho I liked them for their personalities. Kissing was just always awkward and strange for me but in fiction it's erotic.
Should mention that I'm asexual, 5 years since I've realized that.
Yeah, it does feel nice. I don't know why but the feeling of someone's lips touching mine always makes me feel giddy on the inside. But I guess it depends on the person, like maybe some people would rather not.
Some people probably enjoy it, but I've always had a thing against Saliva. Took me years to even let my friends drink from the same cup as me. I never kissed my Ex, sure we did a quick peck on the lips but never frenched. Though I should mention I'm asexual and aromantic. Haven't dated since.
I enjoy kissing, it does feel good. It isn't anything excessively good mind me, but still when you do it you don't wanna stop. I can understand how you may find the idea a bit disgusting but it's not that much of a big deal. Kissing is a way of expressing attraction and brings you closer to the other person. Also mind that people may have preferences about kissing, some don't like deep wet kisses some do... so to each is own, you will find out when you do it.
if the other person knows how to kiss then yes, kissing is pretty nice.
my first kiss was way back so i cant actually remember how exactly did it feel but it was a bit awkward for sure. believe me, the first time is always weird. either cause u r nervous or ur partner is not experienced(if u have ur first kiss when u r a bit older there are lower chances for the 2nd to occur).
i dont know ur age so i cant tell if its normal or not to feel a bit weird about it but its the most normal thing u'll do when u r in a relationship.
Take it from someone who was a kissing whore in their teens lol it can be nice or awful. Depends on your attraction to the person. Honestly I don’t remember much from the first. During the first it’s like you’re so nervous you blank out. Then at home you feel so tingly and can’t stop thinking about that person
So, I'm asking this here because I don't know where else to ask. I can't even imagine how I can feel so attracted to someone that i get turned on? Like, i can definitely feel attracted to bodies, but i can't imagine how i could get so turned on by a body, male OR female, that i want to have sex. I've fallen in love before, but the last time was years ago when I was 10 and I've never been in a relationship before. And If I read about or watch sex, it's the sex itself that turns me on, and not the bodies if that makes sense?? Don't get me wrong, I think about and WANT to have sex and i'm not unable to get turned on. But it's simply the idea that a body can ge me wet that's so foregin to me. Is this something I will understand when i fall in love again, now as someone older than ten year old me? Or is this something similar to being demi or asexual? I'm not really worried, but I would be thankful If I could understand myself a bit better. If anyone know what this is or feels the same thing, please respond^^ This confused gurl appreciate all answers ヾ(@^▽^@)ノ
You're better off looking at resources online that dedicate to the topic (say AVEN). But you're kind of looking in the right direction as regards to asexuality. You can't really know you're demi/grey-a until you're in some sort of relationship or at least get to know what you're attracted to (be it physical or emotional).
Re demisexuality:
http://demisexuality.org/articles/could-i-be-demisexual/
So you get turned on by sex itself, but not by the body?
Don´t think of you being asexual or demisexual. I think your mindset is normal and healthy.
No, I even think it´s gross being turned on by simple nudity. If I go to the pool in swimsuit or go to the sauna naked, I want to relax and I don´t want other people getting turned on.
Also, I´m a therapist and I´ve seen halfnaked or naked patients. While toilet training or while I accompany them to the gynecologist or patients running around halfnaked/naked on the ward. I´ve seen penises, I´ve seen boobs, I´ve seen it all.
But it doesn´t bother me or turn me on, because for me it´s work and patients are asexual for me.
Moreover, if someone gets easily turned on by simple nudity, it should be forbidden for him/her doing a job where patients/clients are halfnaked/naked.
I don´t get turned on by nudity. I also don´t get turned on by getting a massage or giving a massage. I even don´t get turned on if people are handsome and have a great body.
I get turned on if I watch or read about a hot sex scene. I get turned on by the smut atmosphere before having sex or a session. I get turned on by the charisma of sadistic dominat people, their gaze, when I see they are enjoying teasing me (or tying me or playing with me or other things...*cough*).
I see the uploader getting hate cause people think there’s been new content added to the story but seriously tell me any of us thought it was nice to read that low quality double sided original upload. I’m actually rereading the manga now with the new upload and I feel like i’m able to enjoy it so much more since it’s easier to read
Thank you. And I'm happy you find this version easier to read.