I think the uke just wants words of affirmation. He wants to hear “ I do these things because you’re special and I like/love you” instead of “ I do these things because I want to be someone you depend on”. There’s a slight difference in wording. The seme is very nonchalant and not very open about his dislikes and likes. He just seems like he’s going with the flow and it makes it hard to read him.
I think the uke just wants words of affirmation. He wants to hear “ I do these things because you’re special and I like/love you” instead of “ I do these things because I want to be someone you depend on”. There’s a slight difference in wording. The seme is very nonchalant and not very open about his dislikes and likes. He just seems like he’s going with the flow and it makes it hard to read him.
You are good at that, yup totally right with your conclusion