I swear I have seen it all on here, the rape apologists, victim blamers, the ped@s, even encountered a racist uploader once and just now a huge terf called me a groomer lmao love that tbh
The image is unrelated but I shall subject you to it
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Ok but hear me out: Heteronormativity plays a big part imo. The uke tends to be shown as weaker/meek within the story as well as his design most of the time (like having a feminine and petite appearance for example) and hell even within the cover of the story making one automatically (yet maybe subconciously) think of how women also get treated wit...... 3 reply
Agreed about the pet names, I was open to them before but only if they weren't too "cringey". That was until me and my gf started to ironically call each other "babygirl" as a joke and it stuck around to the point we now call each other that all the time
As for another opinion that changed, I don't mind spiders that much anymore I guess? reply
Like more than half of it is just them banging and there's just so much wasted potential because the world geniunly seems so interesting but it barely goes into it because they bang every 2nd or 3rd chapter and Uke and Seme also just almost have no real chemistry besides that (and are pretty boring characters ngl)
But anyways, to each their own cups of tea ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ What's your unpopular opinion?
There's this guy I've been pretty close friends with for about 8 years (and I also am best buddies with his younger brother but thats irrelevant)
Now about 3 - 4 years ago I noticed he had a crush on me, he started doing me a lot of favours, often asked if I wanted to watch an anime or movie with him, always wanted to do stuff I want to do and a lot of other stuff which got more advanced... In one instance my best bud even said 'He has a crush on you!' to which he got flustered and said 'No I don't!' and I was like in the room trying to play along and be like 'Lol nAh he doesn't-'
The thing is, he's pretty kind and all but I never liked him back that way, I always thought of him as a chill brother more than anything (And I also was gaying for my female best friend-) I very much knew he had a crush on me and so I pretended to be totally oblivious to it because I couldn't bring myself to talk to him about it but at the same time I also felt really guilty for letting him live in that false hope
Fastforward to 2020 and uh he still has a crush on me and tries to make advances which make me feel pretty uncomfy mostly because well... I have a girlfriend now- And I'm not sure how to bring that up to him, especially when I don't want to break his heart because he really is a cool person
Soo what should I do?
(And I know the title might be a bit misleading but Idk a better one oof)
