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Is reading and liking yaoi/ yaoi seggs fetishizing?
I wouldn't call it fetishizing because its not that they're necessarily gay that turns u on maybe its because you like men so why not read 2 of them do it? I like the same sex too but i prefer watching straight seggs. Its not like im hurting anyone by watching it. Just dont think that someone is gay or pair them with someone if they're not really in a relationship and make them uncomfortable. And its okay if you get butterflies when real life couples kiss or be romantic cause its normal so i dunno what people are talking abt it being a fetish.
Its my opinion tho its okay if you have different views just dont attack someone just because they like reading bl or yaoi. If they cross the line just educate them
The answer and this topic as a whole is kinda complicated and blurry but I’ll try my best to answer your question. (Though still note that this is mostly more on my opinion on the discussion as a whole.)
Short answer, no. Liking yaoi isn’t fetishising gay men but it CAN lead to fetishisation. There’s a thin line to cross when it comes to tha...... reply
okay but i wont have dumbass 14 year olds not understanding what i mean by fetishising, and saying "gAy MeN aReNt My FeTiSh, I jUsT lIkE bL" if their behaviour clearly indicates otherwise. some stupid people dont understand the goddamn word and base their arguments off of technicalities rather than the sentiments of the majority of queer people.
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