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My homophobic friend lok
So my guy best friend basically told me he is homophobic. I am a female bisexual who reads a shit ton of bl, and gl occasionally so I got no idea what to do.
Should I cut them off? He is my best friend but I don’t want to be friends with a homophobe
If i were you, i would've cut him off without hesitation but i understand he's your best friend so its going to be hard. Maybe, ask him why he's homophobic and why does people being in love bothers him so much? This advice is shitty but i couldn't think of anything else, lmao. 2 reply
Didn't i already answer this but ig i'll say it again, you really should cut them off bc i am afraid it'll be a toxic friendship considering how homephobes are so that's why i hope you understand my advice but ofc you don't have to follow it, follow what you think is the best for you since it's you're life
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Just tell him what you think of gay love. Be honest. And if he cannot accept your opinion then you can still cut them off. If he doesn't want to be friend anymore after you said your piece then the matter resolves itself.
Beside, I have no information of how much he is a homophobe. If he just dislikes them but keeps it to himself normaly then it ...... 1 reply
If they were someone I didn’t care about I’d cut them off. But since you’re questioning it, it means that this person means a lot to you.
You can try to educate him but first it’s be good to find out why he thinks that way. Was it because he’s been indoctrinated by his parents? Religion? A traumatic event? Does he know you’re bi? Talk...... 1 reply
Idk since he’s your best bud maybe try talking to him about why the way being so close minded and not accepting others because of their sexualities is wrong, and maybe after he doesn’t budge then ditch him? Idk but good luck bruv reply
Best friend and homophobic shouldn't even be mentioned in the same sentence. Unless it's "My best friend beat a homophobics ass," then sure otherwise no. Drop them and give them a middle finger up while your at it. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ reply