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Have any of you ever had/have an online lover?
Have any of you ever gotten an online lover? and if so did you ever meet up or anything? Also were you guys serious or was it just for fun/to pass time/because you were lonely?
Also If you've never had an online lover, what do you think of them and do you think you would want one?
I've had 3 online lovers (2 boys 1 girl) and only one of them was a serious relationship though we never met up but in the end none of them really worked out and now I'm a single Pringle :(
I currently have one. 3yrs strong and let me tell you abt the trials and tribulations.
having an online lover is difficult bc you have to put in a shit ton of trust in one another in hopes the other won't cheat. communication is also another thing and i'm horrible at it, but being with my bf now has helped better that part of me (i used to HATE sen...... 3 reply
I was 17 playing H3 and met a guy, we gamed together for 2 years. I went on a trip around the US visiting people I gamed with and he was one of them. We hit it off. Marriage, 2 kids later with another on the way. We're both still gamers and he even watches anime with me now. I have never met another person in my life that's as good a friend to me a...... 1 reply
Yes. Biggest regret of my life. Not because it was online but rather because of who the person was. I think that had I met him irl rather than online, I would have known better than to get involved with him at all. The relationship gave me so much anxiety because of how he dealt with problems (aka avoidance, thus making me believe I’d done someth...... reply
Ive had one, a girl, she was serious? I felt like i wanted to meet up w her and be together. At the same time I feel like I was just trying to figure out if i actually like the same gender, but i did really like her. Until i saw a different side of her i stopped talking to her. When i like someone i like them w my whole heart. So even now she holds...... reply
When I was like 12 I did the most cringe shit ever and managed to get a online boyfriend it lasted a week until I realized this weeb guy was trying to groom me-
Idk if it was serious or not cuz all we did was ERP as siblings and eughhhhhh I’m so upset at myself this was the second guy where that had happened
12 was not a good year for me reply
Yep. On adult friend finder of all damn places! I just wanted to get out and get some spice in my life. We went out for pizza and I was like hey, this is nice but I got beer at my house. Our life has been like a manga; 15 years later we’ve been together through some of everything. Now we are on our third house, we have a 10 year old and my mama l...... 2 reply
I had one, for 5 years. Didn't work.
To sum it up, "There comes a time when you have to stop crossing oceans for people who won't even jump a puddle for you." reply
I've dated online friends before, yeah. The first one was a girl who was a year younger, and honestly it was just super rushed so it really was just cause we were lonely. I broke up with her and she blocked me :')
Second, a girl three years older and we didn't exactly date?? More like a mutual feeling of attraction. We often played video games tog...... reply
Online lover is an oxymoron.....emphasis on moron. It does NOT exist. If you have not had naked sweaty sex with the person, as well being bound by an emotional commitment, you’re gonna have to slap another name on that bitch cause it ain’t lover. 6 reply
I don’t think this counts but it started because of a facebook game. I played like crazy. You could have significant others and all there. I was desperate for friends and I became friends i guess with this guy. He was so sweet and wanted to become my boyfriend there in the game so like ok cool. It’s just a game. But it became so weird? He didn�...... 2 reply
