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hi,help pls. im in a relationship (1 year). we're always fighting because he's im clingy and my timing is bad whenever i show it. he's a bit of a hot headed and whenever i becase clingy to him and he's in a bad mood (tired or just don wanna talk) he's gonna be angry like we'll start to argue but he'll end up not replying afterwards (this happen everytime we're away to eachother). i always ended up begging him to respond and everything. im trying my best not to bug him when he's not in the mood but work and our distance really triggers my anxiety while he doesn't mind it.
a lot of my friends always joke that i should end things with him, most are half meants. he usually is caring and sweet but only when we're together (in which i need to travel 2 hours from the city i work to his workplace and his apartment to spend my 2 day offs with him)
now, we had a fight. i actually can't take him being hot headed, getting angry at me when i only want to talk with him even in virtual. i am working at night whiles he's a dayshift. iam trying my best to spend time and talk to him and i said that im getting tired of him being angry to me everytime.
he did not respond and address it all. this morning he just say sorry and message me the usual.
you think this is a sign? kindly share ur opinion i'll be happy to take it in consideration ╥﹏╥
Honestly... and most honesty, based on what you said, most respectfully as a bystander, I think if that continues then your relationship will not work in the long run. I know it'll be a hard decision since you said he was actually sweet at times and give you attention. But that's only when he feels like it. When you need him the most, or need his w...... 1 reply
Let's see just from this list you shared:
Cons:
1. We are always fighting
2. He is a bit of a hot head
3. When he is in a bad mood, tired or just not wanting to talk he gets angry when you try to get close or even just talk
4. Your friends are saying (in joke = they don't want to upset you too much by sharing what they see is obvious) that you need...... 2 reply
This new era of questions is catching me off guard all these people keep asking for advice in some relationship, but honestly, it just seems like he's not interested or just playing with you. I say try and talk it out face to face, but what I really recommend is for you to break up. reply
>>1st of all i think you should take every answer on here with a bucket of salt and see what would work best for YOU, it's hard but sometimes you'll have to abandon your loved ones' needs and focus on yourself for a while.
>>2nd i think you should directly address it, point out the fact that he ignored it the last time and say that all you want is ...... 1 reply
I think what you guys need to do first is get together and talk, communicate to him your emotions and how he makes you feel and have him do the same, sometimes it helps to just talk through your emotions with one another and make sure its in person. Now if he passes off talking like you say he ignores you, I think that's when he gives you the answe...... 1 reply
