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okay so genuine question y'all... how did y'all figure out that you were part of the LGBTQ?
I have a few friends who are part of it and honestly, i cant say that im not attracted to the same gender atp, but i can say that i am still attracted to the opposite gender am i bisexual? but it feels wrong to call myself bi? like i think id actually do kiss someone of the same gender on the lips but not do the smex part? its all so confusing!!!
I figured I was a greedy bastard who wanted the best of both worlds, but like ion really think there's need for a label fr, just date whatever you're attracted 2 3 reply
Bisexuality is just a title, it can change at anytime so don't be stressed if u find it you're not actually bi. For me, I always knew lmaoo. My first crush was someone of the same gender and my second crush was the opposite.
Its okay to be unsure, and its okay to explore your preferences. 1 reply
just take your time, explore and experiment.
sexuality is a spectrum, there's no need to force yourself into a specific box or label. of course, self identity issues are a thing and you may want to find a label or group you identify with, all i can recommend you do is experiment and explore yourself and your sexuality until you find what you like b...... reply
VERY SIMPLE ANSWERalso cause I made out with a friend at the ripe ass age of 11 n thats how I knew I also liked dudes, experience is all the answers ur gon get ong 1 reply
like others have said, don't rush into labeling yourself. take your time exploring your attractions/sexuality. remember there is also a difference between romantic and sexual attraction. some people don't feel any sexual attraction to people but feel romantic attraction. there are also people for example who are sexually attracted to men and women ...... reply
This is my personal ritual, i suggest you follow: Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight Im straight ...... 1 reply
You don't need to force yourself to be a part of something that doesn't come naturally to you. You may be able kiss to same gender, why ? because they are cute? Like we would kiss and love our pet? But that doesn't mean we are romantically attracted to our pets. So.... what I'm trying to say is, don't rush to put a label on yourself 1 reply
Don't slap a label on yourself until you've experienced it with both. But if you're an adult i would try experimenting bc only you can figure it out and you aren't obligated to have sex, having preferences doesn't make someone less bi just cos you don't wanna have sex with the same gender!!!! as long as you are actually attracted to them (￣∇￣...... reply
I looked at all the labels they had and chose the one with the nicest name. Deadass, just choose based on name and move on with ur life. Don’t worry about what “rules” there are to qualify for a specific label, just do it offa vibes only. If u don’t fw any labels but still wanna be in the queer community, just call yourself queer. reply
