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r/AmITheBadGuy. am I (16 Female seattle) sexist towards men
Relationships with men are just so replaceable compared to relationships with women. Talk abt my interests to them males and everythings fine but then when they start being weird (i find myself surrounded by incels so they want to smooch every girl who they come into contact with) i just leave and replace them. But with women i put tons of effort into maintaining a friendship and if it ends it’s a lot harder to find someone to ‘replace them’. and if i do end up finding a ‘replacement’ everything just feels so much different. like wow they’re actually individuals… but like with men, they all act the same and are unsettling/uncomfortable to be around at times.
basically ig i form a deeper connection with other women compared to men. it’s like men are all the same and they just treat every woman in their lives who arent related to them as talking boobies. they just make things weird and i feel sick when men.. you could say that attraction is the barrier from me forming deeper connections with men but i’m fine being friends with women who are queer. then again gay women are actually respectful and don’t make everything weirdly sexual
is this a sexist mindset mangago forums?! am i bound to be a misandrist forever?!?!
tldr:!!! i‘m always uncomfortable around men and therefore unable to establish proper friendships with them. is this uneasiness caused by my own prejudices ???? or is it just a universal feeling that all women experience
how is being uncomfortable around men sexist??? man yall need to stop using terms so loosely i would be the biggest sexist in this world if that counted as sexism reply
Okay so first off, being uncomfortable around men isn't being sexist, you have been treated badly by men consistently, as long as you're not going around being like "you suck" to a random dude, then I really can't see any action being that bad.
Second of all, the current feminist stance on Misandry is that it doesn't exactly exist, like you not li...... reply
No you’re just uncomfortable with being someone object of attraction, especially if that someone is a friend whose feelings you don’t reciprocate. You’d probably be uncomfortable if it was a woman who made you feel like you’re just a pair of talking tits. Luckily most women have the sense enough to not act like creeps towards friends. So yo...... reply
it largely depends on the individual, if a man is one way or another. I don't think you're sexist, but i will suggest you tread with caution. No man or woman deserves to be treated or viewed poorly based on preconceived notions. I've known many bad men. I was stalked as a child by an old man, and by an old police officer once, i know bad men. But i...... 1 reply
i wake up every day hoping there is a spreading plague that only kills men over 40. the thought that men can look at a girl decades younger than them and think they want to have sex with her makes me sick to my stomach. i hate that barely legal is one of the most popular corn categories and i hate that seeing a girl getting assaulted with the title...... 2 reply
I was uncomfortable with everyone so I cannot empathize with where you are coming from. No, I do not think you are sexist. What you are is 16. While I can not say what your sexual preferences will be as you mature I can say that most boys at that age do see you as a walking pair of boobies. Most boys mature slower than females and have little to no...... reply
