Forgot the name

There was this (I think it was manga) story where the uke wore gloves and never touched anything without the gloves on. Everything had to be cleaned and his hands were covered in scars/burns/cuts from him scrubbing so hard. The seme had dark hair and helped him get over his need to clean and be clean. I think (my brains fuzzy) the uke made a list of the things he hated most and both of them went down the list trying to fix those things. The last one being getting pet on the head.
If anyone can help me out that would be great!